"Fix you mind on what you aim at and never lose sight of it. It is your target. Fix a straight road toward it. This will enable you to get there sooner, and if there are competitors, you will outdistance them." - Dr. Kelly MillerLooking back over the years, I have been surprised and disappointed with people in my life; friends, family and acquaintances, sharing their unsolicited advice or opinions about my dreams; "you can't do that, be realistic!"
But, equally, life can bring you beautiful moments that make you speechless; "you're amazing, how did you do that?" My husband gently chided me and helped me remember those incredible special people, who had the courage to let me know that I was on the right path; "don't give up, just keep going."
I wasn't quite sure what triggered these comments. They could make me feel hurt, supported, or sometimes confused me, but it never derailed me off the path to give up on my dreams.
Either conversation helped me to clarify what I wanted to do. I was able to rebut future comments and strengthen my focus. I'm not sure if it was being stubborn, but adversity in any form allowed to me to be in control of my dreams.
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The external critics were one thing, but the issue that needed to be dealt with is my inner critic. The voice inside me that says ""maybe those people are right, no wants to read what you're writing," It makes the external critic seem quiet and reasonable!
Along the way, I found wonderful people that helped me come to terms with my inner critic. My critic slowly became a voice. It wasn't harsh like a critic, but a voice that allowed to hear what my heart is telling me like "writing takes time and effort, just find ways to get better." It's a dialogue that helps me stay on course.
What are your dreams that you're now pursuing? Better yet, what is your inner voice saying to you?
What a beautiful post and way to end it...I'm touched and inspired.
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